Do you think that you always have to “Define the relationship” in your relationship with your partner?

1. D'u thnk that u alws have to “Define the relationship” in ur relationship with your partner?


a.Yes. I think that I always have to do that.


b.No. As long as I am happy with the relationship. Why do I have to?





2. Assume tht u r in a relationship. What would u feel if u'r partner asks u to define the relationship with her of him?


a.Ok. I am going to figure out


b.Oh, I am in trouble





3. When is the moment for u to ask u'r partner “Define the relationship”?


a. When you want to start the serious relationship with him or her (I like you more than before so I want to confirm our relationship.)


b. When you want to finish the relationship with him or her(I am not satisfied with you anymore so it is time for us to define that we are over.)


c. There is no such moment for that





4. Do you agree with “Women are more likely to want to define the relationship than Men are”?


a.Yes


b.No


c.No idea





5. What is your sex?


a.Male


b.Female.


c.I do not want to reply.

Do you think that you always have to “Define the relationship” in your relationship with your partner?
1. a


2. a


3. a


4. b


5. b
Reply:I want to go off with this survey.





I never think of it as "defining" as more like "clarifying", making sure my partner understands what i want from the relationship, what i will give for the relationship and areas that misdefine the relationship.





To wit, if my partner feels the only way I can show love for her is to buy lots of jewelry, that misdefines the realtionship
Reply:Women always want to define a relationship. I cannot speak for men. For us, this means we want to know that we are a girlfriend, etc. Couples should feel comfortable enough to talk about where they are at, otherwise they shouldn't be a couple.





Mostly, we are looking for answers to questions like monogamy, priorities, etc.





Hope this helps!

wildflower